Dear Me: You Are the Flame

This isn’t a story about heartbreak.
It’s a letter of remembrance a soul check, a soft reclaiming of power, and a reminder of who you’ve always been before anyone tried to dim it.

Dear Me,

You saw something in him that reminded you of you.

The boldness.
The passion.
The way he moved like he owned the room

And for a moment, you thought,
“This is it. Someone who can match my flame.”

But baby, don’t forget
you are the fire.

He just struck a match to what was already burning in your spirit.

You’re not missing him.
You’re remembering you
The confident, sexy, radiant version of yourself who doesn’t dim for anyone.

The one who walks into a room and doesn’t question if she’s wanted.
The one who gets kissed like a blessing and loved like a force of nature.
The one who deserves presence, not confusion.
Power, not crumbs.
Partnership, not performance.

So thank him for the reminder
and then become what he couldn’t handle.

You don’t need him to mirror your fire.

You are the damn flame!

Love,
You

Feeling this energy? Share your reflections in the comments or tag @DavinaLiving with your own “Dear Me” letter. Let’s turn our healing into holy fire.