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To The Man Who Makes My Heart Sing,

I don’t even know how to fully put this into words  and that says a lot coming from me. But you… you’ve cracked something open in me I didn’t even realize I’d locked away. Not just love. Not just attraction. But this deep, soul level knowing that I’m seen… fully, gently, powerfully and still held….

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You arrived right when I was ready to give up.

In the moment I finally let go of chasing love, you appeared.All the breadcrumbs led me to youThe ghosts pretending to be whole,The ones too afraid to be seen,The lies wrapped in lust,The games I had no business playing. I survived all of it.I fought the battles, won the wars,And here I am… standing in…

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Why Am I Craving Sex and Sugar?”

What Your Body Is Really Trying to Tell You (And How to Reclaim Your Power Instead of Suppressing It) ⸻ Lately, I’ve been feeling it all craving sex, craving sweets, craving something… but not quite knowing what it is. And I used to judge it. I used to label it as weakness, as lack of…

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He Wrote Back. But I Wasn’t Waiting.

There was a time when silence would gut me.When not hearing back meant I wasn’t enough.When I used to hand people the pen and ask them to write the ending to my story. But something’s different now.Because when he wrote back I didn’t crumble.I didn’t shrink.I didn’t flinch. I had already found my peace in…

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Dating Isn’t Ideal—But Damn, I’m Learning Myself

Let’s be real dating right now feels like a swipe-fueled social experiment. One second you’re vibing, the next you’re wondering if you imagined the whole damn connection. It’s awkward. It’s draining. And sometimes? It’s wildly clarifying. Because lately I’ve realized… it’s not even about them. Dating has become a mirror. Not a finish line.And weirdly,…

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Why I Stopped Dating Underdogs

A blog for the woman who always saw the potential—but finally started choosing herself. They didn’t lie to me. I lied to myself. I saw the potential. The promise. The “almost” that could’ve turned into “everything” if they just did the work.” But they weren’t showing up for themselves. And somehow, I kept showing up…

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Chasing Potential: Why It Cost Me My Peace

A blog for the woman who kept seeing the light in people who refused to turn it on. I thought if I just held on a little longer… If I loved them a little harder… If I poured more, prayed more, stayed more… They’d finally become who I knew they could be. But chasing potential?…